Trust & safety

Safety shapes everything we build

Comfort only works when you feel secure. That’s why we build policies and tools to support safety at every step — from how members verify their identity, to how you connect beforehand, to the tools available during and after a session.

Peace of mind, by design

Connect with confidence

Cuddlers can complete ID verification, safety tools like session timers are available on every booking, and you set the terms of every connection. Create your free account to get started.

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Identity verification available

Cuddlers can verify their identity with a government ID. Verified profiles carry a badge, so you know their identity has been confirmed before you book.

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Consent comes first

Boundaries are agreed before a session — and either person can revise them at any point during it. Per Floffy policy, “stop” must be honored instantly, no explanation owed, ever.

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Real-time session safety

Cuddlers can start a protected session, and a live timer runs. If they don’t confirm they’re safe when it ends, a grace window opens and we automatically reach out to their chosen safety contact.

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Designated safety contact

Cuddlers can add a trusted person, who confirms in advance. If a session check-in is missed, we automatically call or email them.

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Monitored messaging

In-app chat is automatically scanned for policy violations. Contact details stay gated until a booking is confirmed, keeping interactions on-platform and traceable.

Two-way reviews

Both sides review each other after a session. Reviews only become visible once both are submitted — encouraging honest, independent feedback rather than reactive reviewing. Each review can be flagged and reported with one tap.

How in-session safety works

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Start a protected session

When the session begins, the cuddler starts it in the app. A live timer begins and the cuddler’s safety settings arm automatically.

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A check-in at the end

When the session time is up, the cuddler confirms they’re safe with one tap.

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Missed it? A grace window opens

If the cuddler doesn’t confirm, a short grace period begins.

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Their contact is notified

If the grace window passes, we automatically call or email the cuddler’s consent-confirmed safety contact.

Floffy’s safety tools are a best-effort courtesy and are not a monitoring or emergency service. In any emergency, always call 911 first.

Our standing policies

  • Platonic, non-sexual sessions only — strictly enforced by our policies.
  • You can pause, adjust, or end any session at any time.
  • Block and report tools are one tap away.